A few years, maybe. The Church does not recognize homosexual marriage, and does not condone sexual activity outside of marriage. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. If we do get married I may have to foot more of the bills. Don't approach him with a demandsuch as "I need you to put more time into our relationship". As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness.
As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. That was my experience. Mormonism is an all-in religion. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. We are indeed in two different places.
Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened. Maybe you will win. It is a tradeoff at best. As a married female resident, I wanted to offer you the other side of this Your husbands love you, and miss you. Take issues as they arise, rather than throwing away what could be a good experience for you and her based off of what might happen. Notify me of new posts via email. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. I don't want to give up as I think it is still the stress of the exams that is motivating her response and that given time, we could work things out and have a very special and loving relationship. Your probably thinking of a sect of the Mormons, I'm sure there is one like that.
Now that I am married, it has become more apparent that his previous comments about not minding if his wife has a career, were not entirely accurate. Somehow snow days when everyone else is off, I feel like my husband is the only one working I know there are many but it is very hard. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. Yeah man, don't doubt someone who was a missionary will try to convert you. At 30, you just give up. You can't provide that for her so your marriage will be defective from the outset. Moved homes 5 times in that time. I am 27, LDS, and 5 days away from marrying my own amazing non-Mormon man. I try to be understanding but I find myself getting so angry.