All I can recommend, as a docs wife of nearly 30 years, is prayer or to book a few sessions with a psychologist. Divorce would have wiped him out and he would not have been able to ever stop working. He is a great doctor and everyone loves him great that makes it easy there are always going to be flirty women if you are not a strong women then run. You really don't know how great you have it.
She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". As more and more people marry out of their faith, the subject of interfaith marriage will become more and more important. She was masterful at hiding the cuts and bruises with clothing. I prayed about whether to marry this man, and I felt and still feel strongly that it was right for me. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. I have missed anniversary dinners, birthday parties l, Christmas mornings as well as day to day.
If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. You should also be willing to date other people. Totally hated it too. Expect that you will do the majority of parenting and attend school functions alone.
All this actually needs is some stamps, pre-printed envelopes, and a few seconds to dash off a note, kiss the paper, and drop it in a mailbox. RB Ruth Barb May I'm an active Mormon girl. That was literally over years ago. Cookies make wikiHow better. Don't think your life is going to be all rainbows and great lifestyles. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest.