With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. The man presides over everything. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. They have money for nannies, trips, vacation homes, their children go to the finest colleges, etc. Thanks for sharing your story. If you can't, then it's best to move on. God Bless you and all the other doctors' wives that have transparently shared their experiences on your page. I am emotionally mentally and heartily attached to him.
I feel I am not appreciated and valued as a wife. I also didn't want to push him away by overwhelming him with talks about commitment when he's already stressed. Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. Right now, my husband is in his third and final year of an extremely draining and stressful fellowship.
Thank you for pointing this out. I disagree with the doctrines and practices of the LDS church. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. Move on, but after thanksgiving. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. I'd rather marry a doctor and let him have a mistress on the side if that means not having to worry about money. The hardest thing is the feeling of being completely shut out. Being a doctor means you sacrifice for others, and your family and spouse sacrifices while standing in the shadows of your career. Jack is right about the demographics.
Having married over the course of my life not one but two wonderful non-Mormon men one Jewish and one low-church ProtestantI can say that my own spirituality has been profoundly deepened and enriched by the perspective that these two God-fearing and spiritually mature people offered me, and by my participation in the observances of their traditions. I've been doing it wrong. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers.