I'm surprised this thread is still getting replies. He is not a member and has told me he is not going to convert. Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. Good luck with her, and good life to you. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. Accompany them and support them for as long as you can and then remind them why you joined together. What do you think is a reasonable expectation for how much time you will spend together, how often you will talk, etc. A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful.
I really fell that its time for me to move on. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. I too wish I had researched more in depth the other doc's wives blogs out there - I would have come up with a much more clever blog title. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. I make significantly more money than he does as a resident, but I know that my job is secondary. Marry a person based on his character, not his religion. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission.
Even though we don't have kids I know the feeling of spending my Mrs Doctor life alone. Why Mormons are not sexist. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. Not a Medscape Member. I respect all doctors so much, they go through hell to be where they are and put up with so much stuff at their work too. After my divorce I dated Mormon men в disastrous. Don't fall in love with a doctor. I'm a doctors wife, my husband is a speciality physician.
In particular, I relate to the fact that I'm feeling more like a booty call these days and it's making me start to resent him. I let people assume what they will. She got engaged 3 months later. I feel for you. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone. I'm approaching my 40th birthday and realizing, if anything happens, I will have to plan it myself. After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. Go miserably explore a foreign country by myself wishing my husband was with me. I have just found this blog recently that makes me know that I am not alone.