Which even the kind ones are. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. This is by design. Anonymous, You are definitely one of the the club. His job prevents you much access to him.
I am married to a DH and what helps me the most is knowing my whole life revolves around him and medicine always come first. He started to reflect on how he had become accustomed to missing the day to day moments but these were the big ones that were now being pushed behind his work in priorities. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. I recall reading a talk from Elder Nelson in which he indicated that the church teaches general principles and does not spend time teaching exceptions to general principles.
If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. I actually had one of my friends say to me, " why are you worried about what he is doing when you aren't there he spends hundreds of dollars on you when you are there who cares that he hasn't texted you". Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. Good luck with her, and good life to you. Make sure she knows the plan, so you both can dress appropriately. Not a Medscape Member. Please don't take it the wrong way if he says that a few minutes on the phone is more than he can handle. That is speaking from my own relationship. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult.
Your relationship with your family will be healed, and so will you. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. Probably drop me a text or two. Go on dates on days other than Sunday. I think your response is Bang on.