If my mother needed her surgeon's attention, I wouldn't want him to be thinking about his wife's lamenting that he's never home, not romantic, etc. I run a local nonprofit and had a demanding job, but it can never be as difficult or challenging as his job. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious. Then on one of his lighter weeks when we get some quality time together and text more I reinvest myself and the resentment disappears because I think things are progressing into a real relationship That's also great advice about how to talk to him. There are times where u rarely hear from him and then he contacts me. Sadly, my ward shuns us. Joanna has written a good answer here.
Mormons are very particular about dressing. We have been together for around three years and I feel like now more than ever he expects me to just do things his way and not have an opinion. I feel like I have finally found a sisterhood with a few brothers as well of people who know how I feel and what I deal with on a daily basis. Almost everything is complicated.
RUN like the wind. I always feel like I am last. Forget what anyone else says or expects of you. Why prophets are awesome. Given the fact that doctors, esp surgeons, have a very busy life in US, it seems logical. But that is a nice gesture, and he will appreciate it. He is always on call, too stressed, too tired etc etc. She might be everything you want, but in her eyes you are not what she has been dreaming of her whole life. Also, I'm having a really hard time understanding from these responses how anyone in the medical field ever dates or gets married. Let me say this so you can get an idea of just how crazy and how much your girl friend is into the Mormon religion: These are known as "garments".
She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. I knew I was going to be alone much of the time and for the most part I can handle it. Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it.