Well, you won't be getting into anything soon. Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. How the Book of Abraham was translated from Egyptian scrolls. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. RUN like the wind. He might be a doc by day but when he's not at the hospital he's a regular guy just like anyone else. I say to you, decisions determine destiny. As a matter of fact, you can begin here. I am particularly tied to an area because of family and friends and he was set on selecting a list that was best suited for his career, not me.
The Church encourages people to be a good influence on one another, and she will probably expect you to dress well for her. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Like many of you ladies I also feel like I'm getting the scraps of his time. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things.
He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer. But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. Listen, you are in a bad situation and it just has not come to a head yet. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. Or get them met elsewhere. Here are a few questions you could ask her. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member. In my experience, life-long member, many Mormons have difficulty thinking outside the box, and putting forth effort to inclue and love. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying.
As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. Plus there's a lot of things we didn't get taught growing up that are slowly coming out through the Internet. Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons. She still lives in her hometown though. I decided that if the church taught the general principle that couples should be married in the temple and that was not possible for me if I married this girlthen I should see if my choice would be an exception to the rule. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage.