It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc. It's a heart-wrenching story. There is no moral issue here. It's like talking to a wall. I work 54 hours a week to be able to support myself my family is unable to help more than they already arevolunteer, am taking a class, and mcat studying. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. They seriously have movies about it. On his days off he sleeps all day long.
It's the sort of super dismissive "all women are the same" attitude that I learned in church and left to get away from. My family is pretty awesome in the church. Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. I hope that things will improve and I can adjust to all this. In areas with lots of single Mormons of dating and marriageable age, the Church has established singles wards. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations.
But when I am doing homework or studying, he's usually at my side trying to get my attention or laying on me or otherwise whining that I'm not paying enough attention to him. Twitter did not respond. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years. Other guys I've dated in a similar situation have just asked me to put the keys in the mailbox when I leave though. I learned to read by reading the Book of Mormon. If I even mention wanting to talk just about normal life things, I am told not to tilt the balance between problems and fun. As far as as race and the priesthood, Mormons still believe the priesthood ban was divinely inspired. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing.
I can't emphasize this strongly enough. He's currently working in the ER and waiting to start his residency. Expect her to either write you off during her mission or pressure you to show interest in the church. He just saw someone die or gave a devastating diagnosis or did an incredibly complex surgery with potential complications. I am also going thru the same thing. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. There's definitely strength in kindred spirits. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon.