But I'm trying to determine how much of that behavior is truly down to his profession, and how much of it is him not being very into me or just selfish and unwilling to compromise even if that selfishness is a byproduct of his residency, and not how he would be in other circumstances. In the end people have to make their own decisions. She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example. It has been very difficult to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams. December 10, at 9: December 10, at 1: December 10, at 4: December 11, at 4: December 11, at 7: December 12, at 2: May God bless you. Not sure I want to marry one and live a lonely life, I just want a life partner that can be there for me and any future children. I am married to an ER doc.
I too wish I had researched more in depth the other doc's wives blogs out there - I would have come up with a much more clever blog title. Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important. This is crunch time and years worth of effort are on the line for him. Imagine if all the men in the world weighed over pounds and acted like slobs. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. I've only been married for 1 year and the situation is kicking me right on my behind. This sub is a great place to do that. That question really put things into perspective for me, so thank you.
For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. But I am very lonely indeed, I have married to a doctor for 5 years, he has been struggling with his career change for years with achieving different fellowships and residency in different countries. Now let me be shamefully honest: Also, I'll admit, dating a doctor was kind of exciting. She got engaged 3 months later. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face.
She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life. Iam 24, my bf going to move to Troy NY for his master he ask me to move with him, I want to but Iam afraid we will never get married. A lot of advice I get from others is that you need to build up hobbies and activities of your own so that I am not just waiting for him to give attention and have time for me. My husband is finishing up residency and is never around. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again.