Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. Is your mind made up and you want justifying support. His father died and he was not given one day off. With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful. I stand by my original statement. I married a recent convert girl в she may as well have been a nonmember в and less than a year later we got an annulment.
I admit it is sometimes depressing going to bed without him and getting up seeing him still studying but I am sure we will survive this. Men and women must be willing to accept what they know to be true. Nothing beats a face to face talk. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is. Marriage to the right person is wonderful. You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths.
Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. Is it just the expectation that the SOs of people in these fields are on the backburner. Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love.
Honestly, the bulk of what I did was pretty routine and uninteresting. I didn't hear from him all day, is that normal. Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club.