They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. Medscape App Get fast, accurate answers for point-of-care decision making. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. The two of you can get married in the temple and live together forever for eternity.
The woman gets fidgety after three days on vacation. Next year we are getting married but I already see a tough life ahead of me. If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward. I have missed the Church in some ways, and certainly the blessings of a temple marriage. In her mind if you never accept the gospel you are denying her eternal exaltation as a God. Because Utah mormons are waayyy different than mormons everywhere else.
IF she becomes an Atheist free thinker like you then consider keeping her. Although I do want a long term relationship and to eventually start a family I am NOT going to give up my dream of becoming a physician. What upsets me most is that he didn't realize it was my birthday, or a big one and then that his reaction was to get defensive about his plans rather than offer an alternative for celebrating with me. He doesn't realize that when he spends so much time at the hospital they take this as a sign that he has no home life. Does he come home on time after work. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up.
And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. He came to bed at 1: I don't know if I can make this work. It has worked and my children are very protective of their father. You and your husband are truly a team, even though things are not always equal. I'm so glad you mentioned some of the things that I have been suggesting to my boyfriend for some time, but he has been skeptical about. Like many Docotors wives, Our husbands have a demanding career. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. Most couples who are married where one is a Mormon and the other isn't, usually stems from a situation where they both were married in the temple, then one of them lost their faith sometime after that. I look at my single male doctor colleagues and some of them are sweet and honestly looking for a connection. But the loneliness and the hours ER shifts are taken everything I had left in me.