If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. I think that Doctors have to be selfish to a degree. The complete week I stay alone and feel lonely without a call or a message and even sometimes without a reply.
There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term. I would never convert. You are a good person and she can see that. All the shopping, cleaning, cooking, laundry, social planning, trips, any children that we may have and work full time too?. So if you feel like you both are getting serious, then talk to your girlfriend in time and sort this issue out.
However, and this might sound sad. Maybe you will win. Because Mormons retain old-fashioned values, Mormon girls are raised in a traditional environment by good fathers. So I want to know, if you woud have been given the option to take a totally different path and have a fresh start, would you have taken it?. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. So that may be the end of it there.
It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. I am getting increasingly more resentful of the times I think he can choose us instead of residency. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. Keep the relationship casual.