Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. We met at home just before he went back to school and even though we only had a week together, it was whirlwind and we already spoke of marriage and kids. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. This is by design. I don't know how to manage the resentment.
To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc. They are just really convinced they are right. Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships. And you will be shocked. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. And also I thought it was weird she wore some kind of pants that come to her knees under her other pants, but I never asked about that.
Children thrive on clarity and consistency. If we have children, they will be OK to go to your church, but not compelled to do so, and never baptized. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. They're hidden pretty deep on LDS. And some will do that. We have been married a mere 3.
Submit a new text post. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore. It is not the norm. He learned that I didn't pick up on ambiguity and that I took it personally when he didn't show consideration for me during the times that it was possible to. Plan a day for them. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. But it is luck of the draw. There is the possibility that she will wise up over time, but not likely. The man had essentially been in acadamics his whole life and was emotionally immature. I just graduated college and my boyfriend has one more year.