I know it will get better over time. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist. Honestly i love my baby future doctor honestly i would never leave her, but im scared of not knowing how to deal with all situations and emotions by myself, and this have already began, that means evrytime is going to be worse and ill got to be more strong.
When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered. It is hard for the others to understand my situation, people must just think that you don't need to worry about anything, but this is not the case. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. I don't know why the system allows this type of treatment Not only do the residents feel like they "should" be giving every single bit of their energy, intellect, passion, soul to their residency programs, but they are told by their program directors, attendings and everyone else around them that they "must". I am dating a great guy who happens to be a very brilliant doctor going into residency very soon. I understand that, and accept that. Maybe you do, too. For an example of what this means - say you get hurt in a car accident. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that.
After reading all these comments I now know that life will be even harder when he will be in residency My boyfriend and I are getting engaged next month. Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this. Most want nothing to do with the church. Learn more about the LDS Church.
I completely agree, but I think the critical part is that he needs to talk to her. I respect all doctors so much, they go through hell to be where they are and put up with so much stuff at their work too. Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. All these post confirming how doctors cheat all the time on their spouse kills me and my hope in a future with him. I just pray that we can make it through the next 3 years.