I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate. This is not about either of you individually. I would never convert. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment. Thirty years ago I converted a guy and then dumped him for a returned missionary from an established LDS family. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot.
This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. During those years, I think we had about 5 dinner dates. Money is not everything although the ex certainly has her share. This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. My boyfriend and I moved in together when he started his fellowship last year. Let them explore and see the many people who love Heavenly Father and serve him with all their heart.
This can be done. Even if he just has a weekend free, getting away, just teh two of us, helps so very much. There are so many names in both English and Chinese.
A stiff dick has no awareness How's a lifetime of garments and 3 hour meetings sound. If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether. Don't approach him with a demandsuch as "I need you to put more time into our relationship".