This could possibly be worked out with some communication; perhaps he just hasn't given it enough thought to realize how shitty it is It's very inconsiderate of him. Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious. That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. I find that I walk on egg shells when he is home. I don't drive and we live far away from our family.
Now 13 years later, my son is a teenager. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief.
And what is even worse, is to think of him alone in our house Christmas Day while I work a 24 hr in-house call shift. I'm quite willing to take you at your word, but my guess is that academia had nothing to do with your ex being immature. Maybe we'll break up in a month. We have still not decided about us, since it is at a very early stage. I work 54 hours a week to be able to support myself my family is unable to help more than they already arevolunteer, am taking a class, and mcat studying.
Post was not sent - check your email addresses. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. I seriously could have been the one to write most of that about my situation. After skimming a lot of these comments it seems like many people have found that the most effective way of coping with their relationship with a doctor is to have low expectations or acknowledge that they will always be second.