The ones who already had concerns start questioning. I am a lawyers wife. Stick around on this sub. I just found this blog. I can say this.
How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church. Once beauty 5 years later after helping him with his two kids and putting them first as well as my own I am now burning in sadness and anxiety. While my husband is not a doctor he does have a job that requires very odd hours a-typical of the American and works all holidays. Just stumbled across this site today after trying to find ways to help me cope with dating a Doctor. I have rediscovered what I love about the church but choose not to attend or participate. My plan was to start school as soon as I got married but when he was told he would be going to another hospital, my masters got put on hold. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity.
I do not have a problem with nurses. We went from having sex several times a day on the weekends, to once a week. That's a really sad story.
I'm really glad to hear a few of you have stories of happy interfaith relationships, or leaving the church together, so there's always a chance. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. Does she understand that for a long-term relationship to succeed that the partners must treat each other as equals.