He knows that is a possibility. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. Might be worth working through the missionary lessons and CES letter to see if they can agree at least to disagree. All faiths have vocabulary unique to them.
It'll reinforce the wisdom of running from this disaster in the making. The most damning information is in the footnotes of the essays. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church.
If we have children, they will be OK to go to your church, but not compelled to do so, and never baptized. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. Their pain is guarded within the confines of their professional experience. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. I hope he wised up. It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore. With all of this said, I wish I would have found your blog earlier. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. And he likes the idea of us raising our daughter with the values the Mormon church instills on their youth.
Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. I remember being at some random party in university, holding a beer and looking at the throngs of people around me who were drunk and stumbling. You should also be willing to date other people. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. It is very painful, considering that we have an 8-year old son. Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. Even if they don't see him that often they know, and I know that he Ioves us so much. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. Drinkers tend to rely on drink before they can have fun.