She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle. Marriage is meant to be eternal. I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was. Take issues as they arise, rather than throwing away what could be a good experience for you and her based off of what might happen. And can you talk about hard things together. All the other stuffв is crap.
He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. Having said this, there are several aspects of this particular religion that you need to be aware of as these will greatly affect how she will approach you and the relationship as a whole. She is going to dump you.
I say to you, decisions determine destiny. Children thrive on clarity and consistency. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. Mormon theology is peculiar, yes, but the media frequently takes things out of context and misrepresents the religion. The thing I worry about is the reason that we are together is that I don't want to build my own life. So, we decide to take a "break" because there was so much tension and resentment in the relationship. Yes, we had been in a rough patch for sometime with all of the changing happening around us, moving, starting residency, etc. It's in the Mormon DNA. Medical school and residency is really intense, and I think it's pretty common for doctors to get married a little later in life than the average couple.
It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. You will join the church. But the lies sting some people. But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. My wife is living proof that they CAN be worth it.