There's no way a TBM is dating you if she knows about your Lucifer kick. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. We would have a movie night at his apartment on a Saturday night and the next few days would be great. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you. I believe that marriage and kids is not something that can't be handled, I'm sure that once kids arrive somehow both parents will do whatever it takes to be there for the kids, however I'm also sure that you will be the one most likely to carry the weight a bit more and of course feel it too. Cuddling is not demanding. And as an outsider it will be obvious to you what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - we will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and something that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago.
Sadly, I'm not sure at this point. It's been really, really hard for my fiancee, and I don't think he would be my fiancee if I was this busy when we had met. I believe that marriage and kids is not something that can't be handled, I'm sure that once kids arrive somehow both parents will do whatever it takes to be there for the kids, however I'm also sure that you will be the one most likely to carry the weight a bit more and of course feel it too. What a bozza topic. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. And now he is in his 60s.
I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me.
This is crunch time and years worth of effort are on the line for him. Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. I'm really glad I found this post today. She may be beautiful, friendly, and sincere.