Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. No one appreciates how demanding it is unless they have lived it, many friends over the years said to me "lucky you, you are married to a Doctor. Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member. Then I do my own work I am a recruiter and I work remotely most of the time, which is incredibly convenient for our relationship.
But there are many people on here who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. He's now in his 3rd year of a 4 year residency program and is hoping to do a 2 year fellowship next. Of course it is impossible Anyways, I am sorry to go on and on. Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. Then again, I doubt any man who's not in medicine is willing to put up with the sacrifices of being a neurosurgeons husband. Just to make things worse I am from South America, he is australian and we live in Australia, no much support here Anyway good to know that I am not the only one. Ultimately we broke up. I am often kind of waiting around until the last minute for him to contact me and let me know when he's free or I have to pursue him, which doesn't make me feel like he's very into me. I have been a doctor's wife for almost 2 years - and we have been together for about 7 years, since right before intern year.
She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as they are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. So we'll drink the beer I brought over and I give him a back massage and go down on him luckily he does return the favor in terms of physical stuff when he 's less tired and we have amazing sex. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. Ladies take a stance. Every bishop, new set of missionaries, home teacher, etc.
As for conversion, she just spent every waking second thinking about converting people. You will be surrounded by single women, many of whom are probably interested in dating and marrying a Mormon, so take advantage. Are the sacrifices you make for your partner worth it, and do you have any tips for making it work. This is a very interesting blog and I'm happy to have found it. I feel very discouraged. You won't know this until you do it and that is really important information to get before a marriage contract.