Everything was fantastic, his family adored me, and he told me that he is going to marry me. I let her know it's not healthy to expect someone else to change - we can only control ourselves and not others. Jack is right about the demographics. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. But he's got to know the aggravation and pain that he likely will face. These garments will not be fun for dating, if you know what I mean. He is on call ALL the time, he arrives home 9 pm and barely sit down for diner and then gets called away, then again 2 am heart attack.
Sure I have met alot of douche bag doctors who have no morals, think they are 'it' and you know that they feel free to cheat whenever. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. Why the Mormon Church is Not a Cult. You;ll get the answer you needвprayers and blessings for you both. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven.
It CAN work, to be frank. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief.
Will things get better. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. That is the million dollar question. Do you want to be married in the temple. She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized.