Once he's out of training, though, the medical marriage is much like any other marriage and the success strategies are really all the same. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. I was not moving with him until there was a promise and it would still take me a few months to find a job and relocate. Trust me, though--you will. What a miserable state. Good luck and my prayers are with you. He realized his dream of being a specialty surgeon and having a family but leaves the dirty work to me.
Or when I get up at 5: So far I have not brought up any of this with him because I'm trying to offer all of that support and space you mentioned and I wanted to give him the chance to do it himself. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. He was gone by 6: I was left to manage the house, the finances, the kids' schedules and what little time was left over for my own interests. I only hate one thing in the planet, and that's the Mormon church. I read through a few of the LDS. I wanted very much to make it work with us, and was willing to compromise in areas that I normally wouldn't. Am I resentful - yes!!. Its so good to be a part of this blog.
Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. Let them see the good in you, and believe that their son or daughter has found a good match. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians.
It's pretty rough waking up to drive home that early and then trying to go back to sleep again for just a little bit before getting up again for work. Your mids is still young. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. My 16 year old daughter told her Bishop who made that comment, that she thought her dad was great just the way he was. He can relate to me and we can relate to each other which makes us strong to begin with. The Mormon culture has mastered the forked tongue. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church.