But is it the path that will make you the happiest. I remember when my ex and I had invited friends to our house for a 4th of July dinner and had spent a lot of money and time getting ready. I'm surprised this thread is still getting replies. Or does this sound more like a conscious choice he's making not to get invested in this. Try to find out his schedule in detail.
And he likes the idea of us raising our daughter with the values the Mormon church instills on their youth. Of course, arguments happened because I felt neglected at times step 1 and 2 studying or he left dirty laundry in the bathroom. When you are a man married to a female doctor. Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. He had no idea what he was getting himself into. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. She might not realize how important it is to compromise. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. You'll know pretty quick where she stands.
Because she already lives the covenants in most of the meaningful ways. When my daughter needs challenged in soccer, I took her everywhere, I studied vocabulary list with them, wrote essay with them, math facts……. I'd love to hear from more veterans about how to make this work in the long run. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. I excused canceling plans, seeing each other only once a week, not being able to text much, etc. My husband and I have been married for about 4 years and together since we were undergrads, before he chose medicine as his profession.
This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there.