You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. Are they a functioning member in society. Don't wait for it to eventually fall apart or hope that she will change. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed.
I fully understand the fact that I need to do those things so I can accomplish my dream. If your relationship has gotten very serious, your girlfriend will probably try to find agreement in your faiths. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared.
And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. We are talking about kids and I know it will all fall to me. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. While reading the article I could actually picturize my near future. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. I do hope I'm able to make the necessary sacrifices to make my marriage work. These are nice people. I find myself oscillating between empathy, pity, and rage, but lately, it's been mostly rage. This sub is a great place to do that.
So you made a wise decision. The important thing is doing it together. Because she already lives the covenants in most of the meaningful ways. I went in thinking "oh, we can definitely do this. I would NOT want my daughter or son to marry a doctor. Or do you just push through the exhaustion because you care about the person and do things to make them happy even when you don't always feel like it. She is going to be taught for the rest of her life in the church the importance of missionary work and eternal families, and Priesthood in the home. It should be our time with boys.