And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. I follow a blogger who is a nurse and her stories are gut-wrenching. Go on dates on days other than Sunday.
Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. And by joining I mean become just as fanatic in it as she is All her life she's been taught that she needs to be married in a Mormon temple Wife left when I came out If her family are all Traditional Believing Mormons, they will try to convert you. He is extremely compassionate. The most important thing is an open dialogue, as you say, and utmost respect for the other person. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. I have finally realized that the church is fake and I'm so grateful that I got a second chance with this guy. You can feel it in your bones. I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this.
But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. He took out his bad moods on everyone.
Things have been mostly good, but there are always challenges to deal with. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. Hence, ensure that the girl or guy you want to date is above 16; although with changing times, some kids may date younger, if your love interest is not keen on going out until 16, then hold off. He states that if he is making such a tremendously better income, it would be selfish of me to put our children in daycare in the future so I can work. This also implies, there is no reason for me to further my education or career because he would prefer I have children immediately. I married a person, not a religion.