I suggest to run as it will not get better. This always seemed terribly wrong to me. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. I still love my Heavenly Father and my Savior. Learn all you can. YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are.
First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. This can be done. That is the million dollar question. How is that gonna work. We often have issues because of his relocation every year.
He is controlled by his pediatric physician wife, trying to help others with their illness, and still is with me. This can keep the relationship from getting too exclusive, and spending time with more people can give you a wider variety of things to do. Personally I have a rule that I will not enter a relationship with a believing Mormon. You arent "giving up" anything. Very wise words when tell others to take a very cold hard look at there life. I feel I have given a lot of myself and in the process have lost myself and my identity. Please realize I know how the church works, was extremely active and raised good kids. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. Single women who are educated, regardless of religion, are also going to find similar gender imbalances among their educated peers nowadays.
Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Just know what your getting into. It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like. I am a military doctor's wife, so in addition to the hideous hours, we have deployments. What's hard for us, is he doesn't understand why I gladly accept extra hours and work and community service projects, which sometimes impinge on the little time we do have to spend together. Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. For the official Church websites, please visit LDS. Takes some getting use to.