I married a recent convert girl в she may as well have been a nonmember в and less than a year later we got an annulment. I think love and caring can be more important. It takes a special person to be a doctor's spouse. If she had to choose one issue to dedicate her life to, it would be gender equality. You'll question your parenting decisions but he won't be involved in supporting you because he'll have no idea what's going on and little interest.
I will be marrying my doctor boyfriend soon, and I have to say, I have never been more lonely. Almost everything is complicated. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. If it seems one is unable to find a spouse within the church, which commandment do you keep.
I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career. I mean, there was no way it could be worse than intern year. Somehow snow days when everyone else is off, I feel like my husband is the only one working I know there are many but it is very hard. We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. I am 27, LDS, and 5 days away from marrying my own amazing non-Mormon man. My wife expects me to understand her situation but whiles I am willing to understand, I wish she would make some effort to etch out some quality time for us when she is not stressed out and grumpy and irritable. Having married over the course of my life not one but two wonderful non-Mormon men one Jewish and one low-church ProtestantI can say that my own spirituality has been profoundly deepened and enriched by the perspective that these two God-fearing and spiritually mature people offered me, and by my participation in the observances of their traditions.
Do you have a few suggestions for talking points I may want to bring up from stuff directly on LDS. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult. Neither of our children ever considered medicine as a career after seeing how much their dad missed out on. Richard often laments that if he had taken a tech job, he would have been able to actually make a damn good salary for the last 8 years instead of going into debt with med school and making zero money.