Of course I have time for my SOs, of course I give of myself to them. When she goes on a mission, she will go through the temple which means she will be wearing garments. As you can see Also, the fact that she served a mission is evidence of her dedication to the religion. I believe that marriage and kids is not something that can't be handled, I'm sure that once kids arrive somehow both parents will do whatever it takes to be there for the kids, however I'm also sure that you will be the one most likely to carry the weight a bit more and of course feel it too. But what if your girlfriend is Mormon, but not active in the Church. I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses.
Just a woman who envies the good life of being a medical doctor's wife. Also, I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you with that guy: I'm sure you will meet someone else that's just as wonderful but treats you better if you haven't yet. I would need to ask my husband again. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. They know that they are the best.
Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. I hope he wised up. That's a really sad story. It doesn't get better.
Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. He still writes to me telling me that until his last breath he will love me. I have never been your typical domestically skilled stay at home mom. He has chosen to become a GP rather than an orthopeadic surgeon because that allows him to be home more. About ten years ago, I realized I needed to quit qualifying my excellent husband who is a better man than many Mormon men I knowI realized I needed to raise my kids to think of him as completely equal to the men they knew at church.