You were a banker too. Love and support them just as you would if your husband was a carpenter. We raised 2 wonderful children who are now happy and successful adults. He has always kept her at the side, devoting almost equal time to me and her. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. The first week home he is already covering someone elses cases I struggle with where to draw the line Again we have never had coverage when we needed it. Her dad is a bishop Oh, I should clarify we're both in our late 20s and living independently from parents. They can't seem to deal with it, and shouldn't have to. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness.
Why not rather find yourself a rich sugardaddy and leave the docs alone. I felt like I was 'on call' for when he would be available to see me. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. I have learned this painfully with my child growing up in the LDS community. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. I married outside the church and have no regrets. I pray almost daily that his schedule will get better once we both started working, but I'm constantly concerned that I'll be doing most things alone too. Real love just happens. Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons.
Also, what do you and your fiancee do to deal with the busyness. Dozens of missionaries have told me that the gender ratios in other countries are far, far worse. I am engaged to a doctor who will complete his residency in 2 years. He performs multiple interventional cardiac procedures and saves many lives daily. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. If so, then step away from the internet and go look him in the eyes and take his hands and start asking him all the questions you asked me.
Word to the wise, wait a day or two. But I don't know that he does the same for me. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling.