Its really much harder than what I thought. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. We have been married 2 years and have a 4 month old baby. Sometimes it's easy to forget all the wonderful times we had together before he got into med school. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away. I let people assume what they will. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission.
Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. I keep telling myself we just have to get through these exams, then it will be easier, but now I am beginning to realise that it will probably always be like this!. There is rarely minute that goes by where I am not thinking about him in some way.
Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. He is dealing with the aftermath of a failed suicide while I spend my time trying to keep busy at home. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. Its been over a year and I don't know what to do. I still find it an endearing quality in my spouse, though I miss him sorely. I am one to really like my space and opportunity to do my own thing and little projects.
She asked me to read that site and write down questions. This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. In fact, when I first met him, I had no idea he was even a full fledged doctor.