Maybe you will win. Think of every possible scenario you can think of. Sometimes I think he is the man who shouldn't have had a family but just a career too late for that now though. But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder. Todd Christofferson and the Watergate Scandal Mar 30, 0.
My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind in that sense, but also he has had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. Love does a lot. Feel guilty I brought children into this loneliness They know NO different though. I envy all you lonely doctor wives. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. It had been going on for years. I grew up in a very strict Mormon home and dated only Mormon men until I met my now husband. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship.
I've supported him for 5 years, taken on that Doctor's Partner role, put my ambitions on the back burner, and it hasn't done a lick of good. Also, we haven't practiced polygamy for over years. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. One small thing to add here.
That's all we're really saying. And if he loves you as much as you love him. But, as soon as the marriage happened, the Mormon spouse goes full on Orthodox and expects the non Mormon to comply. Thanks for sharing your story. Either it's enough for you - or it's not. As far as as race and the priesthood, Mormons still believe the priesthood ban was divinely inspired. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men.