You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. I love my former Mormon friends and family, but a relationship requires devotion and trust and understanding. She will introduce you to the church.
I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. He's a good man. I have a 12 year old daughter from my first marriage and so we didn't move in with him until he and I had been together for 2 years.
I also just care about him enough and admire his reasons for becoming a doctor that I'm willing to make sacrifices so that his life is easier. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. If your doctor husband says "impossible", ignore him. Be with a nice guy and a doctor who will not put himself or his love for money first or his ego first. You have been blessed with the equipment to make such decisions. Thank you for pointing this out. Marriage is meant to be eternal.
It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs. It seems she'll expect you to become Mormon. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. We need to come to a decision pretty soon and I really need some insight. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. He fit me- does that make sense. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table.