The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. And the you've seen the CES letter. Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead. The point to this story is that when he had any free time he wanted to spend it with me. As Joanna said, marriage takes some work no matter what, but being married to your best friend, and listening to the spirit brings great blessings. It just plain sucks. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again.
She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. That is why there are home teachers, friends, family members, neighborsвto provide priesthood blessings. So do you just never give anything back to SOs in terms of time or small gestures. Also, they are encouraged to date in groups and not pair off alone, so if your date insists on the same, then agree politely. Religious affiliation is not the only criteria when selecting a spouse. He blames this on his hours for residency, and to be fair they are really long and insane. Love is a relation where compromise sacrifices and understanding matters a lot. If he is the right person for me, then I would wait and deal with the busy schedule in the meantime.
After about 3 months of his occasional interjecting of facts See that 14 year old girl. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. Instead, I found someone outside the cult and we've been married almost 32 years She's looking for a dedicated priesthood holder who will take her to the temple. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. I had a lot of things going on in my personal life as well, so maybe a relationship wouldn't have worked regardless. Good advice for "newbie" docs and spouses. To Anonymous, Your comment also left me heartbroken. So i try and be supportive with cute texts and never asking him to call me or do anything, but it is hard not to feel resentful.
Sometimes I often think he is a wrong choice. He says that I should be happy that he is giving me all the comforts of life. Keep things going and see what happens. Just to make things worse I am from South America, he is australian and we live in Australia, no much support here Anyway good to know that I am not the only one. If I'm focused on something like reading a textbook, or working on some problem then I might still think of him vaguely but I'm not going to whip out my phone or go and see himI'm busy. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. What a fascinating response as always. But his absence in the spiritual side of my life, and that of my mother, was very hard. It's like watching somone lose themselves in an abusive relationship. To sum up, they're incapable of loving anyone but themselves and the thought of a marriage counselor freaks them out as this would mean confronting their ultimate excuse of "I'm too busy".