It really can be that simple. I am coming to the belief that the quality individuals in medicine are the self and family sacrificing ones, truly dedicated to their profession. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. My family says I should leave him…. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. When DH comes in he is still gone more than half the time. Ask her out on dates. I dated many LDS guys before him.
Likewise, posts found to direct odious influxes here may be removed. Just trying to make it through the 3 week stretch of hour days of him at work Ok so I'm engaged to a doctor to be and let me tell y'all something, you might judge me or whatever but when things get hard I go out with my single friends and bring home all the numbers I received to show him, - he then has to choose between me or his case. Posts from people who have your same problem occur on a regular basis here on RFM. It really can be that simple.
I'm a doctors wife, my husband is a speciality physician. She went ahead a married a non member. It's a heart-wrenching story. So, kudos to you for having such a wonderful relationship for so long and getting through step 1 and 2 and matching. Otherwise her family will likely feel incomplete to her. I mentioned in another post that I am okay with us not seeing each other all the time. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. Mormon girls are taught that they have a divine nature. She's a wonderful person and I think we could work, so yes. Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so.
This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon. He want to wait at least one year before he makes any decision he want to take it slow. We did things differently this time around, especially now with some maturity and perspective. There is a lot about Mormonism I am still struggling to understand, but I am reading faith-based memoirs and studying up on Mormonism as well as other religions but the relevance here is on Mormonism. December 10, at 7: December 10, at December 11, at 6: December 20, at 6: December 10, at 2: December 14, at March 1, at March 8, at 1: March 7, at December 10, at 8: Having dealt with a similar issue all of last week I have a couple things to say. Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. He has always kept her at the side, devoting almost equal time to me and her. I would never change my decision to marry him. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried.