In particular, I relate to the fact that I'm feeling more like a booty call these days and it's making me start to resent him. Take extra care to communicate your needs once a week- don't do it every day. When you said that the doctor spouse sacrifices for their patients and their family sacrifices for the doctor's career, it really described my situation.
This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. I'm beginning to think that it should be a monthly visit no matter what. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more.
Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. Another thing to keep in mind: It's a very long, very hard journey to even get to that point of the MD marathon. I went in thinking "oh, we can definitely do this. Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him.
Know there are a lot of Doctors who cheat though. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. Immediateley after we got married I realised things were not going to be as I thought.