Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. Sometimes I feel burned out, but I have to carry on. Why Mormons don't hate gay people. Twitter did not respond.
I grew up in a very strict Mormon home and dated only Mormon men until I met my now husband. Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. I feel I have given a lot of myself and in the process have lost myself and my identity. Submit a new text post.
I'm so glad we waited until now instead of jumping into it right then, because I have learned a ton and the learning curve of being with a doctor is far more steep than it is to be with someone who is not married to their job. Let me say this so you can get an idea of just how crazy and how much your girl friend is into the Mormon religion: These are known as "garments". Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult. It doesn't get better. Some exceptions and valid reasons do exist for divorce but self righteousness is not on of them. I wish I know things better and would have taken a different path in life. I believe rules are to be obeyed. But it is the path we have to go through to get to that point that really scares me.
I keep getting job offers from China and Japan while I truly struggle to find work here in the states. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls. Be a good influence.