But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. Also, if you have girls, you must realize that they are second class citizens in the church and the church will reinforce this idea. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. I've been seeing a doctor for two years now. There's a picture of the magic rock he found while digging a neighbor's well. Don't expect this to be like the others. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Anyway, we've discussed marriage already. Really, I'm interested in this too. Hi ladies, I'm looking for some advice.
My husband is a doc in the UK so I moved 7, miles for love. Drives me a bit crazy. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. Can I leave him now. When I see my boyfriend hard at work, it also inspires me to improve and challenge myself in my own way.
What you described, just being in each other's presence, sounds perfect. I was lucky with my TBM. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in. I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding. What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief. It won't be easy with the lower salary but it will be better than the alternative.
I was lucky with my TBM. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. JS married a girl her age when he was 37, after having told her that he had been threatened by an angel with a flaming sword and promising her entire family salvation if she consentedI decided to read the ces letter.