While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. Whenever you're down or lonely, read the yellow bits. I also expected that my spouse would be temple worthy and that I would get married in the temple, which was not the case. I learned that you have to weigh thes things out--is it someone you care enough about to wait for. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids. If he has to work late call a girlfriend or paint a picture.
Even though it sounds like she is very Mormon, I feel that this will help her. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore. There will always be difference between spouses. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. He might just be unpracticed at your "love language". Your probably thinking of a sect of the Mormons, I'm sure there is one like that. I can honestly relate to all the stories i read from your blog. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards. So I am always alone,our communication is not fully connected, he has no time to talk everything with me, causing a lot of misunderstanding.
But I am very lonely indeed, I have married to a doctor for 5 years, he has been struggling with his career change for years with achieving different fellowships and residency in different countries. They are taught to refrain from smoking, drinking, or experimenting with drugs. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. Its interesting to read all the doctor wife's comments and experiences. Don't do it girls, forget the "status" it doesn't mean jack. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband.
I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. I am thinking about him pretty much all the time. It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. The ex gets it all lol. The man presides over everything. We are long distance, and it is hard, because when we are together I spend much of time alone waiting for him to come back from the hospital. Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his.