Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. Ask her on dates. And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation. I have to day that I totally agree!. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon.
Within a cultural group marriage is hard. Yes, I have considered alternatives. I noticed that in Asia they care much more about language skills than here. If she says yes. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider.
You can be very committed to someone but only be able to fit them in the limited free time you have. Willl he build resentment at the struggle to get him to change whether real or imagined. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. My husband is a 3rd year ENT resident, and we started dating right before he started med school. I think she felt that it was important for me to understand the types of challenges in an interfaith marriage. I am a doctors wife. Every new set will see your man with fresh and hungry eyes as a potential golden contact. It just gets so lonely you invariably commission yourself a single parent. Though they make time for ppl who matter in their life e.
Let me tell you, it is NOT any easier. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. There is no way this will work out.