If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. Oh, and remember LDS girls are usually good at leading guys on with potential sex to get guys to agree to what they want join the church. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church: It's cruel to suggest it. I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected. My husband and I have a much closer relationship than ever before and I just hope that another blue eyed nurse doesn't come along to distract him.
I don't think we are going to end up being friends but I'll get over that. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. This is really a conversation you need to have with him.
I think it's very helpful that I wasn't nearly as busy for most of our relationship thus farwe got engaged before I got absurdly busy and so it's not like we weren't extremely close. I'm not afraid of long distance, nor am I afraid of moving to follow him for med school, residency, fellowship etc. I don't mind long hour days but not having a companion during weekends. Modest dressing is the best policy here. That being said, when you marry a doctor, you marry the profession too. My advice would be to date him when he has free time. They believe that the body is a temple that needs to be worshiped, and that inner beauty is more important. I feel very discouraged.
On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. Anyways, good luck, I hope it works out. The church essays that address that linked at www.