I completely agree with you. I really hadn't considered a lot of the points people have brought up. It is a demanding role being a wife to any man who works and has his own ambitions in the working world. Mormons are also taught "Families can be together forever. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. And a YW leader feels soory for my daughter who is growing up in a home without the priesthood. I'm still holding on and willing to wait for "Better days" with him after his residency.
It's in the Mormon DNA. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. I don't know how to manage the resentment. I keep getting job offers from China and Japan while I truly struggle to find work here in the states. He believes in God, but also believes that God is everywhere, and therefore does not need to be worshipped in a specific place of worship with specific prayers. I think the only thing that can possibly be worse is if he was working in a different country. She was masterful at hiding the cuts and bruises with clothing. It may change your relationship to them forever.
Nor was there a lack of compassion or respect. There's definitely strength in kindred spirits. During our brief break, two of his nurses chased him like crazy, immediately after he left being in a year-long relationship where two families were blended. Two very simple things that require so much effort and understanding. I am married to a DH and what helps me the most is knowing my whole life revolves around him and medicine always come first. She's too heavily invested in Mormonism for that.
Am I dating a douchebag. Thanks for the comment. I only know him as the most loving, caring, and sincere man I have ever met. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. Your comment is SO spot on in my experience. Now, they are limited to only 80 hours per week. And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married. I'm so happy to know another doctor's wife. There will be sacrifices but I am hopeful.