If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. Our communication is almost gone to none, he needs a lot a lot of alone time to achieve his career while i am really worried that how much longer i can live like this!!. Maybe we'll break up in a month. I agree, girls, it can be a challenge to find time together. My family is pretty awesome in the church. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church.
That I will be expected to be a full time single parent most of the time. But now, in addition to being a primary spouse, I'm also the primary parent. If you are an atheist or a non-believer, then let your date know, and politely decline the invitation. I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul. It had nothing to do with our relationship and so much to do with the pressures and demands of his work. But our marriage is strong, and our children are good people. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. He will have to wait outside if his children marry in the temple.
The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice. You and your husband are truly a team, even though things are not always equal. It has been closed.
The hardest thing is the feeling of being completely shut out. There are many catholic families with these three main ethnic groups within it. It's tough to date a med student let alone a resident. I am talking to a Surgeon from US, from an equally good college, for a possible marriage.