She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. If I wasn't such a fighter and survivor I would have given up on this marriage Sitting here in the afternoon, I happened to google 'being a doctors wife' because it's a lonely day and I wanted to see if its hard for others, too. He's in his second year of residency and we're talking about me leaving everything to get engaged and move up with him. He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community. Good Questions to Ask Someone. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path.
You were a banker too. Otherwise her family will likely feel incomplete to her. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. I believe rules are to be obeyed.
Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider. I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him. Let's talk about kids. I know that she's even getting her stuff ready to go on her mission. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. I am talking to a Surgeon from US, from an equally good college, for a possible marriage. I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment. Let her go right now then. The important things that keep our marriage a happy, healthy, and very loving one are the same things that keep any other marriage alive and well.
I don't know if I want to be a single mother of four kids. They are just really convinced they are right. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him.