You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me. Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. We met at home just before he went back to school and even though we only had a week together, it was whirlwind and we already spoke of marriage and kids. Make up stories about being a soldier at war or a sailor at sea keeping me away from my love. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most. Until our marriage, I was living a care free life when I would do things as I please.
Certainly there are such people in the church, but there are such people in any organization, and I would challenge you to remember that the members are also individuals with thoughts, feelings and the ability to rebel in their own ways. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. It's in the Mormon DNA. Although there are no strict rules as to who should do the asking, the Mormons are very conservative and in general, they expect guys to do the asking. If my mother needed her surgeon's attention, I wouldn't want him to be thinking about his wife's lamenting that he's never home, not romantic, etc. But I love him so much. I feel you on the loneliness. It is not the norm. When I hear some of the issues going on in Mormon Land, I usually say to myselfв.
The "loneliness" is not an issue for me. Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles. But a recommendation to somebody who isn't in love yet and doesn't have to live with it What are the biggest problems that occur because of the time issues And how are you dealing with this as a couple. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. Hiring someone to read for research does not work for a variety of reasons.
What am I getting myself into. Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. Dating in your teenage years will help you learn the kinds of things you value in another person. You won't know this until you do it and that is really important information to get before a marriage contract.