We still have great sex 3 or 4 times a week and, no, he doesn't use Viagra, Ciasis, etc. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. I have known many women who have married non-members and are happy. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed.
When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. Maybe we'll break up in a month. The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. This is normal for residents. If we can say them together, great; if not.
Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published. Girls aren't socially required to be missionaries, unlike men. Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes.
To the two wondering sistersвYou both appear to be with loving, incredibly supportive men. No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature. Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture. I can completely relate to all the other doctor' s wives feelings and life experiences. So it is going to be over anyway. You'll definitely need antidepressants. It sounds like you dont even know this guy well enough to answer that question but I could be wrong. I know you got a zillion replies, and I have not read them.