Welcome to the future. Thanks for sharing your story. I found that it worked just as well.
It's the sort of super dismissive "all women are the same" attitude that I learned in church and left to get away from. Its so good to be a part of this blog. My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me.
Some days there is so much pain that I can barely type. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. What do they all do from 8am-2. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. On top of his work schedule, there are other demands on his time like his family and friends. Toxic is the right word. It's easy to forget why I chose to be with him in the first place. As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. Your opportunities may not.
Yes, I have considered alternatives. I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. That response made her very happy. Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old. He's emotionally threatening me to keep his infidelities a secret. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. Lyman April 24, How appropriate to celebrate this second night of Hannukah with not one but two queries about interfaith marriage.