First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. Who knows, maybe a little lighthearted texting is just the 5 minute break he needs. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. We planned the funeral around his work and call schedule. He also said that emergency medicine is highly competitive. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you.
If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. I also think that if marriage outside the covenant is a sin, it is not so grave as to be unforgivable. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career. What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor.
Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it. I am one to really like my space and opportunity to do my own thing and little projects. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me.
You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. Learn all you can. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. Yes, worse than intern year. If you want to date a Mormon guy or girl, then the best way to meet singles is by visiting the Church. And faith and trust. If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on.