She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. They can't seem to deal with it, and shouldn't have to. I know, there is a world, which I have traveled, that have a life so much more difficult than I. His dad and siblings are also doctors, hence his mom is quite use to the idea of being alone and independent. Is he aware that if your children are faithful members of the church they might end of marrying in the temple and he would not be allowed to attend the ceremony. How Soon to Call after a Date. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for.
I am so happy to have found this blog. Good advice for "newbie" docs and spouses. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. Cookies make wikiHow better. In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him. I am thinking about him pretty much all the time. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost.
When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. Let them explore and see the many people who love Heavenly Father and serve him with all their heart. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years.
Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. Iam 24, my bf going to move to Troy NY for his master he ask me to move with him, I want to but Iam afraid we will never get married. But I do still largely consider us an interfaith couple. At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious.