Learn more about the LDS Church. Essential reference tools, including a drug-interaction checker, medical calculators, and a pill identifier. You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. I wanted to be able to fully share my faith with my spouse, but this expectation was now up in the air.
I'm the kind of person that believes that it is just tacky in general to break up or end things via text, but that was my only option. Her Religion is the single most important thing in her life. Their pain is guarded within the confines of their professional experience. Everyone seems to think that I'm lucky to marry a doctor.
I would say though that racial differences are NOT like religious differences, certainly not those between Mo and Nomo. It has been closed. If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. The fact that she is dating an atheist non-Mormon shows pretty serious lack of conformity already. Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself. She's already past her prime in the Mormon dating market. That's cool and everything until you realize that they're an archeologist or a missionary pilot and are in uncivilized areas with no modern methods of communication.
I appreciate knowing all you have mentioned since it gives me a bit of insight and some real good tips. You will have to bring her down to reality. Stopped answering texts and calls, refused to give me my belongings that he moved up to the new place, and not to mention he broke up with me over the phone after all of those years. For girls, being the right age for marriage usually means graduating high school, if not later. I think one has to become somewhat vulnerable and broken to truly experience the best side of happy- and he will not, and can not allow that to happen.